Divorce…

This one word always puts us in thinking, without giving any thought, we keep taking sides, and we get biased.

Man/woman, both get biased with their chain of thoughts.

Mostly, the more sympathy goes towards women, as it’s perennially thought that men are the ones who cause divorces.

Why does the situation arise for that dreaded word?

In marriage, there will always be differences, thinking, behaviour, expectations, emotional and physical as well, trust, and many other factors.

In any one of the above, if something goes wrong, and if that persists, that sows the seeds of the divorce.

But who is at fault, the man, the woman or the circumstances?

And if for anything, one has to take this difficult decision, what should one do, what is the threshold one should stretch this decision to take?

I feel the one in this confusion should think, what they are going through, if it is a necessity for the better mental health and future life, one shouldn’t think twice and should go ahead.

And if it’s a compulsion, then they should give some time to the other side, to the relationship. If needed, compromise a little bit, considering the relations over the years.

If it happens amicably, then it’s only better, which is rare.