How Life Events Shape Our Perspectives

How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

When we discuss about life, I feel each and every moment makes an impact on us. But the ones which impacted in big way, influence us.

Not getting everything we demanded as a kid, tells us that we need to compromise or sacrifice on few things.

As a parent, when we do that to our kids, then we too learn that even one likes to give all the happiness to our kids, that wont be possible.

When you grow up, the love you wanted to be with won’t be possible, that makes a very big impact on you. That literally breaks you.

But then one, with whom you get married, after many years of togetherness makes you forget the old love. May be this is why they say “time heals everything”.

Then there are select few instances like job loss, transfers, had to live away from family, hospitalisations.

The death of close ones (which is really stressful) and many more.

I think all these impactful life events make us strong and tell us just to MOVE ON. The biggest lesson one can take from life.